Sometimes, it can be challenging to realize you’re in an unhealthy relationship. While an attorney can help you move forward with your life, it’s up to you to recognize that you need help. This guide outlines the typical actions of abusive partners, so you can determine if you need to change your situation.

Signs You May Be in an Abusive Relationship

1. They’re Obsessive

As a relationship begins, someone with an abusive nature will become obsessed very quickly. For example, they may make statements of love for you when it’s still early in the relationship. Any pressure for a commitment should also be considered a red flag. If you’re with someone who makes you feel uncomfortable by engaging in these actions, trust your intuition and break off the relationship before it gets worse. If they persist, or if their behavior worsens, your attorney can help you make a clean break.

2. They’re Possessive

It's easy to mistake possessiveness for love, especially when this is an ongoing habit, but a partner that's always checking up on you isn't necessarily a good thing. They may regularly ask where you've been, check your phone, or try to dictate what you do. If this sounds familiar and you're unsure where to go for help, contact an attorney, as many are familiar with community resources that help people get out of abusive relationships.

3. They’re Jealous

Another sign you may be in an abusive relationship is a partner who's frequently jealous. They may accuse you of cheating on them, or get angry because they think you're flirting with someone else. It's also common for this type of partner to push your family and friends away by exhibiting rude behavior that leaves them feeling unwelcome. If your partner behaves in this way, you may find yourself isolated from your loved ones.

4. They Blame You

Someone who’s always blaming you for their failings is manipulative and abusive. This type of behavior can escalate if you remain in the relationship, as they could begin taking their frustrations out on you. While you may want to help someone you love and be supportive, allowing them to blame you for their failings will only make a bad situation worse.

If you’re in an abusive relationship, or you fear your relationship may be unhealthy, consult an attorney. Fulcher Law Firm has helped clients throughout Montgomery and Stanly counties in North Carolina for 18 years file for divorce, obtain restraining orders, and pursue other family law matters. To schedule a confidential consultation, visit their website or call (704) 984-6060.