Social media has changed the way we approach many interactions, and sharing news about a loved one’s passing is no exception. Often, individuals who have experienced loss remain unsure about how they should approach the details of a memorial service via social media – if at all. While it’s ultimately a matter of personal preference, here are some considerations that may help navigate these circumstances. 

Commonly Asked Questions About Memorial Services & Social Media

When should news about someone’s passing be shared?

No one should find out about a close loved one’s passing over the internet. This means all relatives, close family members, and coworkers should hear the news before it’s posted online. This is true regardless of your relationship to the deceased. If you’re a friend who has found out from someone else, for example, follow the family’s lead and wait to say anything public until they have first.

What should be shared online?

If you’re the next-of-kin and you’re confident your loved one’s close network has received the news, you can share information about their passing at your discretion. In most cases, it’s best to be brief and say a few words about your loss. Keep in mind that you don’t have to share any details or answer any questions you don’t want. If words are escaping you right now, sharing a link to their obituary or the memorial page may be enough to give people information and a space to share their thoughts. 

What are the benefits of sharing online?

Some individuals prefer to stay offline during their time of loss. For others, letting friends and family in on their grief is cathartic. It helps them begin to process the challenging emotions that come with loss and also provides a support system as encouraging words to pour in. Of course, you must also be prepared for the possibility of prying questions, so think carefully about what you’re willing to share and with whom.

Should you include details about the service?

Sharing details about a memorial service is an effective way to spread the word among your loved one’s network who may not have heard about the event otherwise but would still like to attend. Often, memorial services, funerals, and wakes are open to friends, families, and other individuals, while more intimate gatherings such as graveside services are reserved for close family. 

The professionals from Herman-Taylor Funeral Home & Cremation Center know that the time following a loved one’s loss can be overwhelming, which is why their team offers compassionate and comprehensive support. Since 1953, their team has been honoring the lives of community members with dignified funerals and memorial services. Find out more about their services online or call (715) 423-5460 to speak with a team member.