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Epitaphs are engravings carved into headstones to honor or describe the deceased. You can write a simple sentence, such as “here lies a beloved mother,” or poems and Bible verses that remind you of your loved one. If you’re developing a memorial for someone you lost, here’re a guide that will help you write the epitaph. 

How to Write a Meaningful Epitaph

1. Reflect

Think about the personality of the person you’re honoring before you start writing. What were their interests and accomplishments? Did they have a favorite book of the Bible? Did they prefer simplicity or grand gestures? Discussing the person with their other loved ones can help you come up with a few ideas for words to include.

2. Consider Examples

headstones-new-yorkYou can find epitaphs of public figures online, or the memorial company can provide you with examples of finished headstones.

You can also take a walk through a cemetery to see what types of messages other families have included in the memorials of their loved ones. Take pictures of any headstones you’re drawn to and refer to them as you draft the epitaph.

3. Work on Your Draft

Once you’ve gathered your thoughts and ideas, create a list with several options. Seeing the written words will help you picture them on the memorial. 

It doesn’t matter how short or long the epitaph is, but keep in mind that larger memorials can accommodate lengthier text. If your loved one’s memorial is an upright headstone, for example, it has more room for text than a flush grave marker.

 

If you need to create a beautiful memorial for a grave, turn to Derrick Monument Company Inc in LeRoy, NY. Family-owned and -operated, this memorial company will help you create a gravestone that celebrates your loved one’s life. Call (585) 768-8470 to request a consultation, or visit their website to view examples of their work.

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