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Death can be a difficult concept to grasp at any age. Children especially might not understand the finality of what it means when you tell them someone has passed away. The funeral service can help your child through the grieving process when they see family and friends feeling sad but still sharing loving memories about the recently departed. If your child is old enough to attend the funeral, here are some tips on how to guide them through the experience.

Helping Your Child Through the Funeral

1. Create a Safe Space for Open Discussion

In times of sadness, some people might try to stifle a child’s questions or comments based on how unknowingly silly or blunt they are. However, a grieving child should be permitted to talk openly about their feelings. They could be experiencing new, confusing emotions, so let them ask questions. Then, provide answers in words that they will understand.

2. Walk Them Through the Funeral

Funeral serviceWhile you are planning the funeral service, talk your child through every step of the process. Discuss how they will see the deceased in a casket, if they want to see them at all, and explain that they will see a lot of sad people at the funeral. While you can’t protect them from the reality of the situation, preparing them beforehand could prevent them from becoming overwhelmed.

3. Let Them Help at the Service

Kids often enjoy being assigned responsibilities, such as being the line leader or classroom monitor. At the funeral, they can hand out programs, greet guests, or pass out boxes of tissues. Not only will they feel involved, but it might lift the spirits of the other funeral-goers.

4. Bring a Beloved Toy

Whether it’s a G.I. Joe doll or a stuffed bear, a toy could be comforting to a child who must sit still for at least an hour. A toy will be familiar and could provide some comfort, as long as it doesn’t make any disruptive noises during the funeral service.

 

For a funeral home that has been caring for the community for over 140 years, contact E.C. Nurre Funeral Homes, Inc., in Amelia, OH. They show compassion in this time of grief and strive to arrange a beautiful service that honors your loved one. They offer resources like support groups and social security benefits, so you are covered emotionally and financially. To learn more about their service options, go to their website or call (513) 753-6130.

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