When a couple that shares children decides to end their personal relationship, they have considerable control over their parenting plan—as long as they’re willing to compromise. If both parties can cooperate with each other and devise a reasonable arrangement that prioritizes the best interests of their children, a family law judge will sign off on it. If you’re unsure how to come up with such an arrangement, here are a few tips for getting started. 

3 Tips for Creating a Parenting Plan 

1. Be Practical 

It’s perfectly natural—and even expected—for parents to get emotional when considering custody. If you’re trying to devise a parenting plan, though, it’s important to be practical. Failing to consider logistics will only result in an arrangement that’s far more complicated than it needs to be.

As such, make sure to ask yourselves questions like who lives closer to the kids’ school, who’s available in the afternoons to pick them up, and who has a more predictable work schedule. 

2. Allow for Flexibility 

Regardless of how comprehensive the plan might be, you’ll inevitably have to deviate from it on occasion. After all, life is unpredictable, and various scenarios that call for some kind of modification will arise periodically.

To mitigate disputes when issues do arise, address how you’ll navigate the negotiations in advance. For example, if one parent wants to take the kids on a two-week vacation, is the other entitled to make up the time they miss?

3. Consult a Lawyer

Even those pursuing an uncontested divorce can benefit from legal counsel. A knowledgeable family law attorney will help you devise strategic compromises that will allow you to secure a more favorable custody arrangement. Your legal team will also ensure the final plan is reasonable enough to become a court order. 

Unfortunately, just because you're willing to cooperate doesn't mean your partner is, too. If you’re facing a contentious family law dispute or would like advice for custody in an amicable divorce, turn to Ray T. Kennington, Attorney At Law in Ozark, AL. Since 1982, this firm has been counseling clients in family law, bankruptcy law, personal injury law, and Social Security disability law. When it comes to parenting plans, they know exactly what’s at stake, and their team will fight tirelessly to help you secure a favorable arrangement. To request a consultation, reach out on their website or call (334) 445-1200.