Funeral services have changed a lot throughout the years, adapting to accommodate new values, preferences, and opinions. Because of this, it’s common for mourners to ask what is and isn’t appropriate to wear to a funeral. Gone are the days when black dresses and suits were the only acceptable answer. If you’re looking for advice about what to wear to a loved one’s service, the following tips can prevent you from appearing disrespectful.

3 Attire Tips for a Funeral Service

1. Dress Conservatively

Dressing conservatively is the best plan for a funeral or memorial service. Black isn’t necessary, but you should avoid wearing flashy patterns or bright colors such as yellow or pink. Instead, choose dark, neutral colors such as navy or gray. Women should wear dresses that cover their shoulders and knees while men should wear slacks and a nice dress shirt.

2. Consider the Type of Service 

Consider where the funeral or memorial service is being held. Services held at the beach or a similar specific outdoor location allow for more casual clothes. Events held at a church may call for more dressy attire. Similarly, if your late loved one dressed formally as their norm, it is respectful to do the same for their service.  

3. Be Mindful Of Your Shoes

Choose shoes that go with the formality of the rest of your outfit, and don’t wear sneakers. Brown shoes are well suited to blue, brown, or light grey clothes. Black shoes pair well with any color, but especially black, dark blue, or dark grey.

When planning your outfit for a funeral service, it’s encouraged to ask for advice from a funeral director, as well. Cornelius, Dodd & Connell Inc. Funeral Home in Middletown, NY, has helped families plan and hold memorial and funeral services for more than 100 years. Contact them today online or call (845) 343-2142 to learn more about their services.