When you want to feel close to a departed loved one, visiting their memorial at the cemetery may provide some comfort. Their grave marker is a physical tribute to your loved one, and the peaceful, beautiful environment of a well-kept cemetery can help ease your feelings of the loss. When you go for a visit, keep these suggestions in mind.

General Cemetery Etiquette

The cemetery is a special and meaningful place, and you aren't the only one who is visiting it. You need to be respectful of both the place and the other visitors. Try not to be loud or disruptive, especially if there's a graveside service taking place. Don't leave trash or interfere with other headstones. Before you go, check the cemetery's rules about visiting hours, what you can leave on the memorials, and any other rules of conduct specific to that establishment.

What to Do at a Loved One's Memorial

If you aren't sure what to do at the cemetery, there are several steps you can take to try to see what feels best. Many people bring flowers, photographs, or other gifts, as allowed by the cemetery, and some even plant flowers on their loved one's grave. Some people talk aloud to their loved one or spend time in prayer or meditation. If the memorial is dirty or has older flowers on it, you can tidy the area. Just don't use strong chemicals or abrasive cleaning materials that might damage the stone.

You can eat a snack or a picnic lunch if food is permitted on the grounds. You can also take a walk around, enjoy the scenery, and respectfully view the other memorials. If you're there with other people who knew your loved one, you can talk about fond memories with them and bring each other peace. 

For 120 years, McGee Monuments in Rochester, NY, has helped create beautiful, lasting memorials for loved ones to visit. This local, family-owned company serves Monroe County and offers caring attention and skilled craftsmanship. To schedule a consultation about your project, call (585) 546-4602 or visit their website to learn more about what they offer.