Going on a dinner date to a restaurant is a classic way of connecting with a potential romantic partner. But like other date settings, restaurants have their own culture of what’s acceptable. Use this guide to learn more about what you should and shouldn’t do on a dinner date. 

Do: 

Ask questions.

Between delicious courses at the restaurant, there will be a lot of time for conversation and to get to know one another. Avoid the common bad date move of only talking about yourself. Instead, ask questions about the other person. It will show that you are a curious, interested person and also allows you to see how your date presents themselves. 

Mind your manners.

When out for a dinner date at a nice restaurant, be mindful of your etiquette, including how you eat. That means closing your mouth while you chew and not talking with your mouth full. Avoid overly familiar behaviors like ordering for the other person until you and your date have gotten to know each other better.

Don’t:

Treat your date’s plate like your own.

A big turn-off for many people is when a date takes food off their plate without asking. While that behavior might be acceptable after a certain comfort level is reached, it’s often inappropriate in the early stages of dating. If you like to share, offer to let them try your food, and maybe they will reciprocate. 

Show up late.

Arriving late starts the dinner date off on the wrong foot and can signal that you may be unreliable. Take care to get there on time so as not to leave your date waiting alone.

When choosing the perfect restaurant for your next dinner date, try the exciting flavors and atmosphere at Kobe Japanese Steak House in Lahaina, HI. For over three decades, this restaurant and sushi bar has sourced 95% of its fish from local vendors, ensuring freshness. The teppanyaki-style cuisine makes for a fun date as your dishes are creatively prepared before your eyes. To make a reservation, call (808) 667-5555. Learn more about this restaurant and their available staff openings on their website.