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While social media does give people another avenue to share their condolences after someone loses a loved one, it also makes it easier to overstep your bounds in this challenging time. That’s why it’s essential to follow the proper etiquette when dealing with a funeral and social media, and this FAQ is designed to help you understand what that entails.

Navigating Social Media and Funerals

How long should I wait before posting?

Since everyone grieves in their way, there’s no set time frame for when it’s acceptable to post about someone’s passing. Still, generally, it’s recommended that you at least wait until an immediate family member shares information on social media. They’re often busy planning the funeral service and want to ensure that those closest to the deceased find out the news in person or over the phone rather than online.

Is it acceptable to share information about funeral planning online?

funeralSocial media is a more efficient way to inform friends and family of when and where the funeral and memorial service will be compared to calling or emailing. However, unless the person planning these services states otherwise in their post, you shouldn’t share that post on your account. Those closest to the person who has passed might want a more intimate service, and having people they didn’t invite show up serves as a distraction while they’re trying to honor their loved one.

Can I take pictures at the service?

Taking pictures at the service is often considered to be disrespectful, and you should never post any photos of the deceased or the casket out of a sign of respect. If you feel like you must take one, always ask permission before taking a picture of anyone else there, and whenever possible, go to a different location than where the service is being held to avoid causing any distractions.

Where should I post my condolences online?

Don’t create a post on your own social media pages. This can come off as a disrespectful attempt to gain likes for yourself. If you want to show support, make a post on that person’s memorialized page instead. It’s a trend that has gained popularity as social media becomes more prevalent. The memorialized account of the person who has passed serves as a communal public area where everyone can pay their respects and share fond memories.

 

Losing a loved one is never easy, but working with the right funeral planners helps alleviate some of the stress, and the compassionate team at Melvin T. Strider Colonial Funeral Home in Ranson, WV, wants to help. As a family-owned and -operated funeral home for over 100 years, they’ll walk you through the entire process and help you plan the perfect service so everyone can pay their respects. Schedule an appointment by calling (304) 725-7068 or learn more about their services online.
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