Losing a loved one can be challenging. If you know someone who is going through a tough time, it’s important to show your support in any way you can. Though you can’t take away their pain, you can attend their loved one’s funeral and send a sympathy note to let them know that you’re thinking of them. However, some people aren’t sure where to start when crafting a letter. Here’s what you need to know. 

Why You Should Write a Sympathy Note

A handwritten sympathy note can show your friend or family member how much you care about them. While they’re struggling with grief, it can sometimes be difficult to notice any positives in life. However, taking the time to write out your feelings will serve as a reminder of how much love is still in their life. It will also help them understand how the deceased had a positive impact on others, which can shift their perspective toward appreciation.

How to Write a Sympathy Note

A sympathy note is deeply personal, so tailor yours to your specific relationship with the recipient. However, keep in mind that effective letters tend to have a few elements in common.

First, offer condolences. Next, include a positive thought, such as a story about the deceased or loving quality they had. Finally, if you can, offer to help your friend, and make sure to be specific. Instead of saying let me know if you need anything, offer to bring food to their home after the funeral or handle some household chores while they grieve.

If you’ve recently lost a loved one or are in the midst of funeral planning, the professionals at Porto Funeral Homes will help. With multiple locations in New Haven County, CT, this family-run business has been serving locals for more than 75 years. They offer cremation services, burial trusts, traditional memorial services, and preplanning options—all carried out by a caring team. To speak with a director, call the West Haven location at (203) 934-5000 or the East Haven Location at (203) 467-3000. Visit the funeral home’s website for a full list of services.