When a loved one passes away, there are several considerations to be made, from what kind of funeral service you want to who will attend. Although saying goodbye to a deceased loved one is an essential part of the grieving process, determining whether children should attend can be tricky. Utilize the following factors to help you decide if you should include your child in these events.

A Guide to Bringing Children to Funeral Services

One of the critical factors to consider when determining whether your child should be present for a funeral is their age. Although children under the age of 2 may not understand what’s happening, they may cause disruptions or distract you and other mourners. Older children, those between 3 and 6, may have no problems controlling their behavior, but they may be scared or confused by death and the proceedings.

Children 7 and older are typically better equipped to understand the significance of a funeral service. They may, however, lack the emotional maturity to process death. Consider their relation to the deceased and how they’ve responded to other emotionally charged events, such as being snubbed by a friend. Talk with them about what will occur, and leave attendance up to them. If they feel comfortable being a part of this day, bring them with you.

What Services Should a Child Skip?

Funeral services and graveside ceremonies should be reserved for children who are mature enough to maintain their composure and process their emotions. Have younger children stay with a babysitter so you can grieve in peace. For social gatherings after traditional memorial services, allow children of any age to attend. Younger children can interact with family and friends, and older children can rely on community to help them process their sadness by reminiscing with family and friends and sharing fond memories.

Coping with the death of a loved one can be challenging when trying to arrange funeral services and finalize plans. Families in Cincinnati, OH, trust the caring professionals at Bolton & Lunsford Funeral Homes to arrange funeral, graveside, and memorial services. To learn more about their compassionate and sensitive approach to funeral planning, visit them online, or call 513-661-4059 to schedule an appointment with a funeral director.