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If someone you knew passed away and you can’t attend the funeral, you might wonder what to do. No matter why you can’t go, there are alternative ways to send your love. Here are a few ideas to help you support the grieving family before or after the event.

3 Ways to Show Support If You Can’t Attend a Funeral

1. Send a Card

Write a card to the family expressing your condolences. Ask everyone in your household, including your kids, to sign their names. If others have memories of the deceased, ask them to write these down. Your message will offer comfort to the grieving family, and can be displayed at the funeral alongside other gifts and cards if you send it before the event.

2. Offer Service Later

funeralJust because you can’t attend a funeral now doesn’t mean you can’t help later. Think about what the family might be having a hard time doing, including child care and yard work. Offering to help out may lighten their burden. Talk with friends of the family about how you can assist, either by working yourself or hiring a service to tackle the job.

3. Make a Donation

You can also make a donation to a charity the deceased cared about. For example, if they loved their pet, you could reach out to Citizens for Animal Protection. Many organizations allow you to make a donation in someone else’s name online, notifying the family of your action in a subtle, caring manner. They may also receive a thank-you card from the charity in the mail. 

 

Adzima Funeral Home in Stratford, CT, looks after those who have lost their loved ones. For more than 100 years, this trusted team of professionals has been working with families to provide the kind of bereavement assistance necessary to plan loving, thoughtful funerals. Find more grief resources to support your loved ones on their website or call (203) 375-2200 to schedule an appointment. 

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