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Becoming a gestational surrogate allows you to help a family member or friend in an invaluable way. But before agreeing to this arrangement, you must consider whether the role is right for you. Gestational surrogacy involves the use of in vitro fertilization to implant an embryo created from another woman’s egg, so you won’t be the child’s biological mother. To help you decide whether you should partake in this process, here are answers to four frequently asked questions about becoming a gestational surrogate. 

4 Common Questions About Becoming a Gestational Surrogate 

Who can become a gestational surrogate?

Qualifications to become a gestational surrogate vary among fertility clinics, but most require a woman to:

  • be older than 21 and younger than 37 years old
  • be cleared by her OB-GYN to be a gestational carrier
  • be in generally good health
  • have at least one child of her own
  • have carried at least one pregnancy to term
  • not be obese or underweight
  • not smoke, abuse alcohol, or use street drugs

What are the steps of gestational surrogacy?

First, you and the intended parents will meet with your respective lawyers to go over a legal contract that covers possible pregnancy risks, expectations for both parties to establish the intended parents as the biological parents, and financial compensation.

You’ll then start the in vitro fertilization process. After you receive fertility treatments and the embryo is implanted, you’ll go forward with prenatal care, hospital plans, and other steps you’d take in a typical, non-surrogacy pregnancy.

Once you deliver the baby, the intended parents will assume their roles as the child’s legal parents. 

Should I contact a surrogacy agency? 

in vitro fertilizationYou’re not required to contact a surrogacy agency. However, such agencies can be extremely helpful, as they can screen both you and the intended parents to ensure you’re prepared to face the emotional and physical challenges that come with the experience. Agencies can also help simplify your communications with doctors, insurance companies, and attorneys.

Do I have to be financially compensated?

Some gestational surrogates don’t feel comfortable receiving money from the intended parents. While the matter of financial compensation is up to you and the parents, some experts recommend that the surrogate be compensated in some way due to the emotional and physical risks she’ll face.

 

If you need assistance with your surrogacy journey, turn to Pacific In Vitro Fertilization Institute. Since 1985, this trusted fertility clinic has served individuals and couples throughout Honolulu, HI. They provide in vitro fertilization services, including LGBT options, as well as fertility preservation services. Learn more about the clinic online, and call (808) 946-2226 to schedule a consultation. 

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