Attending funeral services is a time to honor the deceased’s memory and offer support to mourners. For non-family members who are attending a funeral, displaying proper etiquette is an absolute must. The following etiquette guidelines will allow you to express your sympathy in an appropriate manner.

Top 3 Etiquette Practices For Attending Funeral Services

1. Dress Appropriately

You don’t necessarily have to wear black for a funeral, but you should still dress appropriately for the occasion. Even if you don’t wear black, you should still choose muted colors like gray or dark blue. It is best to wear nicer clothing, such as what you would wear to church or a job interview. Casual attire like T-shirts and shorts should be avoided.

2. Know What You Should & Shouldn’t Say

Everyone wants to offer words of comfort to the bereaved, but you don’t want to say the wrong thing. Appropriate choices include sharing a favorite memory of the deceased or expressing condolences. Platitudes like “It’ll be okay” or “I know how you feel” are not helpful and can even come off as condescending.

3. Be Mindful of Your Children

While it can be okay to bring children to the funeral, consider this option carefully. Young children may not understand what is going on and could act out, especially if they didn’t know the person who died. It may be best to get a babysitter for your children instead. If you have a toddler or infant, consider sitting close to the exit so you can leave quickly with your child if they become noisy.

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