Attending the funeral of a loved one may be difficult; writing a eulogy may overwhelm you. If you’ve been asked to prepare a eulogy, think of it as a privilege. Here are a few tips to guide your thoughts and composition. 

How to Write a Worthy Eulogy 

1. Be Succinct 

No one expects a grand speech. The service may limit your delivery to a few minutes. Confirm the time allotted with the person who’s arranging the service or the funeral home director. Talk long enough to convey the impact your loved one had on you and others, but not so long that minds start wandering.  

2. Keep the Tone Positive & Natural 

Don’t focus on the negative. Recall their positive traits, using a conversational and approachable tone. Your eulogy should occasionally make the audience smile. Lift the atmosphere of grief while engaging your listeners with anecdotes that highlight their notable attributes. 

3. Go Beyond the Facts 

Don’t write a biographical timeline. Focus on anecdotes that demonstrate their impact on those they loved. Share their interests, causes, and favorite stories. 

4. Link Everything Together 

Find a common theme among cherished memories, and link them together in a meaningful thread. Consider using the eulogy to highlight a particular trait—kindness, service to community, or commitment to family. Mourners will be comforted by the deceased’s unity of purpose in life. 

5. Prepare Yourself 

Ask friends and family for ideas and shareable memories. Get their opinions on your final draft. Set aside time to practice your delivery. Have tissues and a bottle of water at your side in case they’re needed. 

If you’re arranging a loved one’s funeral, contact Northcutt & Son Home for Funerals in Morehead, KY. Their experienced team has arranged beautiful and meaningful memorials for people of every faith tradition and denomination with respect and compassion. Request their assistance today by calling (606) 784-6491, or visit them online to learn more about their services.