Writing an obituary is an emotionally challenging task. Coping with the passing of someone that you love is devastating enough without thinking about how to craft a flawless encapsulation of their life and spirit. However, there are ways to approach the task that may help you find some solace amidst your grief. As you prepare for the funeral and put pen to paper, keep these helpful suggestions in mind.

How to Write an Obituary

1. Begin With a Biographical Profile

Since an obituary is essentially an announcement that informs loved ones of a person’s passing, include the person’s name, age, and where they lived. Follow this with some brief biographical details. Mention their date of birth, educational and professional affiliations, marriage partner, and specific accomplishments.

2. Offer Some Personal Details

Use this opportunity to honor the deceased by describing them in greater depth. Share some of their hobbies, personality traits, and passions. For example, if your loved one was an avid sportsman or a doctor who treated patients with love and respect, make these points. If they loved art or music, mention that. Use an obituary to paint an image of the person as they were in life.

If you’ve been asked to deliver a eulogy, use your notes for the obituary to guide what you say at the funeral service.

3. Name Surviving Family Members

It isn’t necessary to mention all extended family members by name. Unless the deceased was particularly close to a second cousin, mention only immediate family. Don’t forget to include beloved pets as well.

4. Provide the Funeral Information

Conclude the obituary by providing details about the funeral and burial. Include the date, time, and location for services along with any requests the family may want you to express. For example, some may request that mourners send a donation to a charity in lieu of flowers or that flowers be sent to a church rather than a funeral home.

Families throughout Cincinnati, OH, trust the caring and compassionate staff of Bolton & Lunsford Funeral Homes to assist them during periods of grief. This family-run funeral home has served the community since 1938. They’ll work closely with you to plan a fitting memorial. They’ll also help you with cremations and burials. Visit them online for more information, or call (513) 661-4059 to speak with a member of the staff today.