If you're hoping for an amicable divorce, ask your family law attorney about mediation. During this proceeding, spouses consult a neutral third party who aims to help them devise satisfactory terms for every aspect of the separation agreement. In the event of successful mediation, the couple will reap the following benefits. 

3 Benefits of Attempting Mediation During Divorce Proceedings

1. More Control 

If you take your ex to court, you’re essentially relinquishing control to a judge. Since legal proceedings can be unpredictable, there’s no way to be sure that they’ll rule in your favor. By going to mediation, on the other hand, you’ll be able to negotiate with your ex on terms that you both deem fair. 

2. Lower Costs 

Going to court is considerably more expensive than working with a mediator. Not only will there be higher legal fees—your family law attorney will have to spend a lot more time on your case responding to motions and preparing for hearings—there will also be court costs in excess of the standard filing fees.

In addition to eliminating these expenses, pursuing mediation may also yield a more satisfactory settlement. Regardless of how closely a judge reviews your case, no one knows your financial situation and family dynamic better than you, so you can negotiate for more favorable terms.

3. Shorter Proceedings

As long as both parties are willing to cooperate, mediation can settle disputes relatively quickly. It may even be possible for the couple to arrive at a satisfactory agreement within weeks. If you go to court, on the other hand, it could take months or even years to resolve everything. 

For help securing a divorce agreement with favorable terms, whether through mediation or litigation, turn to the Law Office of Carmen DiAmore-Siah. For more than two decades, this family law attorney has helped Honolulu residents navigate complicated legal proceedings. To learn more about her family law services, visit her website. To schedule a free initial consultation, call (808) 531-2277.