When aging in place becomes too difficult, it may be time to discuss assisted living with your elderly parents. It’s not an easy dialogue, and many seniors are apprehensive at first. However, having the right strategy is important, and taking the right approach will make all the difference in convincing them. If you’re preparing to discuss the matter with your parents, here’s what you need to know. 

How to Talk About Assisted Living With Your Loved Ones

1. Give Them Control

First and foremost, your loved one should feel it’s their decision; otherwise, they’ll likely be combative. Start by addressing their everyday needs. If they’re having mobility challenges or find it difficult to cook, bathe, and clean, explain how assisted living will help. Ask about roadblocks in their life and options they feel could be a solution, including adult day care or moving to assisted living. Feeling in control will make them more receptive to the idea.

2. Enlist Support

Your loved one needs to know that the move isn’t just your opinion. Have siblings and close friends share their thoughts and concerns. It’s wise to do this in one-on-one sessions rather than large groups, as this can be overwhelming. By having more people point out the need for assisted living, your loved one will be more likely to realize its necessity.

3. Make Yourself Available to Listen

Your loved one may be apprehensive because they’re afraid to leave home. Make yourself available to listen. Explain that assisted living is not a nursing home—a common and problematic misconception. Let them know that the home-like accommodations will give them the freedom to decorate as they choose. Point out that they’ll have privacy and can take advantage of amenities and services. Finally, if they want social opportunities, they’ll have plenty of options.

If you’re exploring assisted living options with your loved one, contact GrandeVille Senior Living Community. Based in Rochester, NY, and serving all of Monroe County and parts of Wayne, Ontario, Livingston, Orleans, and Genesee counties, this stunning senior living facility offers all the services and assistance seniors need for healthy living. They accommodate both short- and long-term stays and provide 24-hour service. Call (585) 621-6160 to schedule a tour, and visit their website to learn more.