Ending a marriage is never easy, but there are ways to reduce the financial and emotional impact of the process. By pursuing an amicable split with the help of a divorce lawyer, you can streamline the proceedings and walk away with a fair settlement. 

What Are the Approaches for Securing an Amicable Divorce?

There are a few ways to pursue an amicable divorce. In a collaborative approach, each party hires their own divorce lawyer to negotiate on their behalf. By keeping the proceedings out of court, the couple retains some control over the process. 

If disputes arise, the couple can opt for mediation in lieu of litigation. During this approach, a professional mediator will help the couple arrive at agreements. 

Couples who’ve agreed on everything in advance, from property division to spousal support, may opt to forgo counsel entirely and pursue a DIY divorce. There are no divorce lawyers or mediators involved in this approach. Instead, the couple fills out all the necessary paperwork and files it in the appropriate court. 

How Can the Proceedings Remain Amicable?

Regardless of which approach you end up taking, both you and your partner will have to commit to keeping the proceedings amicable. You can do this by avoiding the “blame game” and focusing on what matters most, like the needs of your children.

It’s also wise to stay off social media. It’s perfectly natural to turn to your digital friends and followers for support during a trying time, but it’s easy to insult your ex in the process. Any inappropriate comments made on social media can also be used against you during the proceedings. 

If you want to pursue an amicable divorce in New York, turn to MacVean, Lewis, Sherwin & McDermott, P.C. in Middletown. This firm has been counseling clients throughout the Hudson Valley for more than 130 years. A full-service practice, their legal team is well-versed in a variety of areas, including estate planning, personal injury law, criminal defense, employment law, and business formation. To schedule your free consultation with a divorce lawyer on their team, reach out online or call (845) 343-3000.