Writing a eulogy is a heartfelt expression of how much your loved one meant to you. However, in dealing with the loss, planning the funeral service, and wanting the eulogy to be perfect, it is a stressful task. To write a eulogy that your loved one would be proud of, here are five tips and suggestions to keep in mind as you’re writing.

How to Write a Eulogy

1. Gather Inspiration

Surrounding yourself with items that remind you of the deceased helps inspire your writing for the eulogy. Going through pictures and letters could bring up memories and stories to share. Looking through their social media pages can also remind you of their personality and interests.

2. Don’t Forget Introductions

Even if the funeral service is full of family and friends, introduce yourself, and explain your connection with the deceased. This process helps to “break the ice” if you don’t want to jump into an anecdote or story. 

3. Pick Your Favorite Stories

Tell stories that represent the personality of your loved one. Mourners will get a sense of familiarity and feel closer to the deceased. So you don’t overcrowd your eulogy, pick two or three stories that mean the most to you, and tell them in chronological order. 

4. Don’t Be Afraid to Laugh

You might picture a solemn funeral service and shy away from telling a funny anecdote. However, people love hearing funny stories about their loved ones. If you’re talking about an amusing trait, it’s OK to laugh.

5. End With a Quote

Writing the end of a eulogy can be as challenging as starting one. If you can’t think of an ending that you like, try including a quote, song, or scripture verse that was meaningful to the deceased.

To ensure that a loved one is cared for and given the service they deserve, visit Schlientz & Moore Funeral Home, located in Dayton, OH. We understand how hard it is to plan a funeral. We offer compassion and competitive rates by beating anyone else’s pricing up to 5%. Go online to browse our funeral planning options or call (937) 253-1441.