Being selected to deliver a eulogy is an honor, but it can be a source of stress for many people, especially if it’s their first time. If the process seems intimidating or you feel lost, fall back on these proven tips that will help you deliver a touching eulogy at the funeral service.

How to Share a Eulogy

1. Practice & Memorize

The best way to become comfortable with the eulogy is to practice before the funeral service. Start by trying to memorize it and practicing alone in a quiet room. You can then begin sharing it with close friends and family who can provide feedback. Often, if you consulted them about writing the eulogy, it’s wise to revisit them for delivery feedback.

2. Breathe at Natural Breaks

It’s important to breathe during the delivery. You may begin holding your breath out of fear, which can lead to a jumbled, hasty presentation, and the lack of oxygen may make you more nervous. When you memorize the eulogy, learn to breathe at the natural breaks in the sentences. This will keep you from rushing, and you’ll find that a slower delivery also gives the funeral service attendees time to digest what you’re saying.

3. Make Eye Contact

Eye contact is compelling and helps an audience feel like they’re part of the ceremony. It can also be a way to ground yourself if you become lost or nervous. Select a close friend and ask where they’re sitting, and if you get nervous, look to them to help relax you. Memorizing the eulogy will make it easier to utilize eye contact fully.

If you’re looking for help with funeral services in the Cincinnati, OH, area, turn to Gilligan Funeral Homes. This funeral home offers comprehensive after-life services, including burials, caskets, cremation urns, and planning assistance. They also offer funeral pre-planning, which you can explore on their website. Call (513) 281-8311 today to speak with a representative and connect on Facebook for news and updates.