It’s difficult watching someone you care about mourn the loss of a loved one. You may have an urge to help but not know what to say or do. While there’s no way to solve such a problem, here are a few ways you can support a friend or family member before, during, or after a funeral service.

How to Help a Loved One Cope With Loss

1. Focus on the Present

Many times, those trying to comfort someone in grief bring up the past or point to how their friend will feel better in the future. These sentiments mean well, but such statements don’t soothe your loved one’s current feelings.

Don’t try to speed up their healing process. All you can do is let them know that you recognize they’re hurt and are there for them, even if that means offering a shoulder to cry on or an ear to vent to.

2. Anticipate Their Needs

During times of grief, it’s normal for people to forgo self-care. As their friend, you can help them through this period by showing up. Don’t wait for them to call because they may not know how to ask for help. Stop by to walk the dog, run to the grocery store, or even help with plans for the funeral service.

3. Stay in Touch

For many people, the grieving process can take years. After the funeral and initial mourning period, distant friends and family leave the bereaved to return to their normal life. This is when your support means more than ever. Visit them regularly to talk or to see if they need help with anything. During this time, see how they are adjusting to the changes in their life and ensure that they don’t disconnect from the world.

Planning a funeral service for a loved one is never easy, but the caring team at Brater-Winter Funeral Home will be there every step of the way with support and guidance. Since 1945, this family-owned funeral home has been dedicated to providing excellent service to families in Cincinnati, OH. This includes providing online and group grief support services; visit their website to learn more about these care options. For questions or to discuss funeral service planning, call (513) 941-1940.