Being asked to deliver the eulogy at a friend or family member’s memorial service can be intimidating, especially since you may want to showcase their in a memorable way. However, don’t let the weight of the task keep you from delivering an excellent speech. Here are three tips for confidently delivering a eulogy. 

Advice for Delivering a Eulogy

1. Practice the Speech at Home

Before you read the eulogy to friends and family, practice your delivery at home. Read the speech aloud to get the diction of the text down, and consider tweaking the organization of the document if you notice issues during your practice. If you’re nervous in front of a crowd, practicing in front of a mirror will help boost your confidence, as you’ll be able to nail down a smooth pace for the speech. 

2. Run Important Facts By Family & Friends

It’s best to consult with the people closest to the deceased to verify important dates and details of their life. Consider verifying the information you have in your eulogy with photos or journals, and talk with family members about what kind of tone they want for the speech. While some families prefer a formal and respectful tone, others may feel that a more lighthearted speech will best honor the happy, peaceful life the person lived.

3. Take Your Time 

As you offer the eulogy, remember that others are there to grieve. Focus on taking your time and being sensitive as you deliver your speech. While being respectful of the memorial service schedule is smart, don’t rush through your talking points. When appropriate, give audience members a moment to laugh or reflect during your talk. 

If you’re facing the death of a loved one, turn to Leo M. Bean And Sons Funeral Home in Rochester, NY. In addition to walking you through every step of the memorial service planning process, these trusted professionals can help with advanced planning and cremation. Find out why families throughout Monroe County have trusted these professionals for more than 40 years by visiting their website or calling (585) 426-7830.