Writing and delivering a eulogy at a funeral service is an honor, and when you are responsible, the prospect is intimidating at first. However, you shouldn’t overthink it. Sticking to proven guidelines and drawing from personal experiences will ensure you deliver a heartfelt eulogy that honors the deceased.

How to Write  Eulogy

1. Gather the Facts

The easiest place to start is with the facts. Starting chronologically, list all of the details about the deceased that you should share. These include their birth date, place of birth, siblings, and parents; school and career achievements; marriage and significant life events; and details of their legacy, such as charitable contributions or life lessons they often shared.

2. Establish a Tone

Traditionally, a eulogy is a simple, respectful commemoration. However, there are opportunities to make it uplifting and humorous. First, consider what the deceased would prefer. If you’re uncertain, ask family members to gather an overall opinion. Also, consider the venue. If it’s a traditional, religion-based funeral service, you may want to avoid humor. Once you have your tone, you can determine how to word the eulogy.

3. Add Personal Details

Stories are an excellent way to deliver facts. You can share personal memories of the deceased or experiences you had with them. Discussing how a grandparent helped you develop character or special moments with a deceased sibling showcase the best parts of who they were. Consider gathering stories from friends and family that you can also share.

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