Even when you believe a relationship has run its course, your spouse may feel differently. They may not agree to a divorce as a result. If you have exhausted the lines of communication, you can take the following steps to start the process of dissolving your marriage.

Is a Spouse's Cooperation Necessary?

Although the process of separation and dissolution is smoother when both parties agree, you can still end a marriage to an uncooperative spouse. When your spouse receives your filed papers they are then legally notified of your intentions.

You may choose to use the sheriff’s office or hire a process server to ensure your spouse receives the initial divorce papers.  Your spouse then has a certain amount of time to respond.  

What  Legal Avenues Can I Take?

When the proceedings are contested, a hearing will take place where both parties are to appear.  The judge and the lawyers will then discuss steps to resolve the issues and try to get both parties agree to terms.  Mediation is often ordered by the courts.  If mediation is unsuccessful, the court will schedule a contested trial where each side presents evidence on disputed issues.

If your spouse does not show up for required hearings, you can request a resolution by way of judgment.  The court will decide whether to honor requests for child support, the division of assets, and other terms outlined in the divorce papers.

If you feel divorce is right for you, contact Guillien Van Nuland, LLC in La Crosse, WI, for help. With over 50 years of combined experience, their skilled family lawyers negotiate terms and help with appeals to ensure clients are awarded child custody, support, and the assets they’re entitled to. To schedule a consultation, call (608) 782-4411, or visit them online to find out how they’ll make the dissolution of your marriage less stressful.