From supporting their interests to keeping up with their preschool program, it’s important to stay involved in the life of your son or daughter. At the same time, over-involvement may make it more difficult for your little one to adjust as they get older. Often known as “helicopter parenting,” this comes with consequences for a child. Here’s all you need to know about this parenting style and how to avoid it.

What Is Helicopter Parenting?

In general terms, a helicopter parent is one who attempts to control all or most aspects of their child’s life. This may include providing excessive assistance with homework, calling teachers about unwanted grades, or even hand-picking who their friends should be.

Helicopter parenting often stems from a fear of what might happen if the child does not excel. For instance, you might want to check their homework or try to get grades changed in hopes of helping your little one succeed.

What Are the Potential Consequences for the Child?

Despite the good intentions behind this parenting style, it often has negative consequences for the child's behavior and well-being.

If the parents rarely allow them to complete assignments or projects on their own, they may develop low self-esteem as they come of age. The child may also feel a sense of entitlement and have difficulties coping with the disappointments that are natural in life.

How Can You Avoid This Urge as a Parent?

The best way to prevent these future consequences is to allow your child some independence in their social, emotional, and academic life. Give them room to figure out assignments and make decisions on their own.

Do this by staying involved in their lives without steering their course. For example, if they need assistance with homework, enroll them in tutoring sessions rather than helping them yourself.

Rather than trying to prevent failure, teach your child what they need to do to succeed, including paying attention in class and studying before tests. When they’re confronted with disappointment, teach them how to persevere and overcome obstacles. 
 

In New York’s Mendon and Honeoye Falls areas, Mendon Child Care Center offers preschool programs that will give your child a head-start on learning. They offer comprehensive child care curricula that include enrichment activities, playtime, and homework assistance. They believe in creating a nurturing, relaxed, and fun atmosphere. Explore their preschool programs online or call (585) 624-2337 to enroll your little one.