Choosing a monument for a lost loved one is a major consideration and one that can often be overwhelming for grieving families. The headstone or memorial bench you choose may last for generations, so it’s no wonder many people don’t know where to begin. The tips below will help you choose a monument that will help honor the loved one you’ve lost.

Understand the Rules & Requirements

Many cemeteries have strict rules governing the size, shape, and materials of headstones and cremation monuments. If you’ve already selected a final resting place or memorial garden, ask about their guidelines before looking at the options.

Consider the Material

Granite and marble, the two most popular monument materials, are available in a wide range of colors, from soft white to deep, rich black. Choosing the ideal color and material before shopping for a memorial will help narrow down the options and make the process easier. Many families also select bronze, which will stand up to adverse weather conditions and last many decades. If you would like a durable and standard grey option, you can select a sandstone material. 

Select a Shape

Once you know what color and material you want, choosing the right shape and design may be somewhat straightforward, especially if the cemetery has design limitations. The shape and design of the monument should reflect the personality of your departed loved one but have an aesthetic that surviving family members will appreciate. Popular options include flat, horizontal squares or erect, vertical memorials.  

Decide on Customization

Capturing the essence of your loved one’s life in a few words can seem impossible, but it’s important not to clutter the monument. Consider including a favorite saying, a beloved religious quote, or a line of poetry, along with their name and birth date. Some may choose to include a symbol, such as a cross, the Star of David, an angel, or a dove. 

For more than a century, McGee Monuments has offered dignified, compassionate service to Rochester, NY, families who are dealing with the loss of a loved one. Their expansive inventory includes options perfect for any taste or religious background, and their experienced designers will help you craft a suitable memorial that will last for generations. Visit their website for more on their services, or call (585) 546-4602 to make an appointment with one of their designers today.