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3 Things to Avoid When Selecting a Headstone October 24, 2019

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3 Things to Avoid When Selecting a Headstone, Honolulu, Hawaii

There are many ways to honor a loved after they pass away. Among the most poignant things you can do is to select a beautiful headstone that reflects the person’s character. There are many considerations, which might feel overwhelming as you explore your options. Here are some suggestions to make your choice simpler.

Major Mistakes When Choosing a Headstone

1. Timing It Improperly

You don’t have to select a headstone in the immediate aftermath of the person’s passing. It’s often best to wait at least half a year after the burial for the ground to settle. During the time that you’re waiting, you can research different materials, sizes, and colors to determine the best choice for your loved one, while also working on writing a fitting inscription. It can take anywhere from two weeks to a month for the creation and inscription of the stone, so it’s smart to contact your engraving service early in the process.

2. Neglecting Cemetery Rules

Honolulu, HI headstoneReach out to the cemetery beforehand to learn about their governing rules and regulations. All properties have restrictions regarding size and style. Some may only permit granite, for example, while others might only accept bronze in a certain size. Once you know your limitations in terms of material and whether it’s acceptable to hire someone for installation, you can proceed with the most suitable options.

3. Forgetting Your Budget

You don’t have to pigeonhole yourself by selecting a gravestone based strictly on its price. However, before you begin navigating your options, determine a general budget and allow yourself some wiggle room, if possible. This allows you to expand your options if you find something fitting for your loved one.


The compassionate professionals at Hawaii Stone Art in Honolulu, HI, are committed to honoring your loved one. Serving all the islands, the company designs attractive headstones available in a wide range of materials, shapes, and sizes. Whether you’re interested in an elaborate grave marker, a thoughtfully engraved stone, or even pet headstones for your beloved furry friend, you can trust them to provide exactly what you need. Visit them online to find out more about these products, or call them at (808) 744-3162 to get started.

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