When someone passes away, you will want to send the family a gift to express your condolences. Although many people opt to send flowers to the funeral, floral arrangements aren’t your only option, and they may be inappropriate, depending on the family’s religion or the preferences of the deceased. If you want to show your support by sending a gift, here are some possible items to consider instead. 

What Gift Should You Send to a Funeral Home? 

1. Charitable Donations

Often, the deceased or their family will designate a specific, meaningful charity where mourners can make donations in lieu of flowers. Sending a check in the name of the deceased is an excellent way to honor their memory while also respecting their wishes. 

2. Personalized Gifts 

The family of the deceased will likely appreciate a personalized gift honoring their loved one, such as an engraved photo album with a favorite photo, a decorative item or ornament, or something that reminds them of their loved one. For example, if the deceased was a bird watcher, giving them a handcrafted bird feeder can help spur happy memories.

3. Gifts of Service

When someone passes away, their loved ones are often busy handling the details of the funeral and burial. Give them the gift of service by running some errands, taking their kids for a few hours so they can get things done, or doing some chores for them. Even after the funeral, offer help and support. For instance, your neighbor who lost her husband might need some help cleaning the gutters in the fall. 

4. Comfort Items

When young children lose a loved one, a snuggly new teddy bear or blanket can help bring them comfort. Older kids might appreciate a new journal to write in to help them deal with their feelings. A new coloring book and some sharp crayons, a book, or a small toy can help kids avoid feeling forgotten during the flurry of activity around the funeral and help give them comfort. 

5. Self-Care Gifts

Once the funeral is over, those grieving are likely to feel exhausted. Put together a basket of self-care and comfort items, such as herbal teas, a soothing candle, some bubble bath, or a gift certificate for a massage or other spa service. If necessary, include free babysitting as part of the gift to encourage your friend or family member to take some “me-time" to recover and recharge.

For help planning a funeral and coping with the death of a loved one, turn to the compassionate professionals at  Melvin T. Strider Colonial Funeral Home in Ranson, WV. For more than 100 years, this funeral home has helped families with all aspects of planning memorial services, including funeral pre-planning, choosing caskets, burial planning, and cremation. Learn more by visiting their website or call (304) 725-7068 to speak with a representative.