When someone you love and respect has passed away, giving a eulogy at their funeral is a beautiful way to say goodbye. Eulogies can, however, be challenging to compose and deliver without becoming overwhelmed with emotion. Here are a few guidelines for giving a memorable eulogy.

A Guide to Delivering a Eulogy

1. Add Some Lightness

A funeral is a solemn occasion, and your eulogy should reflect the seriousness of the occasion. You can, however, support mourners and bring a sense of peace to the service if you add some lightness to your commemoration. Relieving tension by sharing an amusing anecdote or story will help you move through the more difficult sections of your speech.

2. Practice

Practice your address in front of a mirror a few times before the funeral. Preparation is key to successfully delivering a eulogy. Saying the words out loud will also help you keep your emotions in check when giving the speech in front of others.

3. Make Eye Contact

Take turns making eye contact with a few members of the audience whom you know well. Choose people who are not likely to cry. If you start to feel emotional while eulogizing the deceased, connecting with someone in the audience who is composed will help you maintain your composure. Looking up from your written remarks will also force you to slow your delivery. Try to remain calm and avoid rushing through your words.

When planning a funeral for a loved one, turn to the team at Bolton & Lunsford Funeral Homes in Cincinnati, OH. They’ve been providing professional and compassionate funeral services to the community since 1938. They’ll help you make dignified arrangements and allow everyone to say goodbye in peace. Visit their website for more information about funeral planning, or call (513) 661-4059 to speak with a funeral director.