Ending a marriage is inherently emotional, but it doesn’t have to be contentious. If you approach the proceedings with an open mind and a little perspective, it may be possible to resolve conflicts regarding asset division and child custody without going to court. Here are a few effective methods of facilitating drama-free divorces. 

3 Tips for Mitigating Conflict During Divorce 

1. Try Alternative Dispute Resolution

If you can agree on some aspects of the divorce but not others, consider mediation—a form of alternative dispute resolution. When a couple has all but a few terms of their divorce agreement finalized, they’ve proved their willingness to compromise. However, they may need a neutral third party to weigh in on the high-stakes facets of the arrangement, like child custody. 

2. Keep Communication to a Minimum 

If you don’t have any children, go through your attorney for all correspondence with your ex. Also, avoid posting about your divorce on social media as doing so could start drama if you have mutual friends. 

If you have children, channel all communication with your soon-to-be-former spouse through your attorney except for pressing childcare matters that need immediate attention. Limiting communication is one of the most effective ways to prevent minor issues from devolving into significant disputes. 

3. Evaluate Your Priorities

Picking your battles is never more critical than during divorce proceedings. Unfortunately, it can be hard to keep a clear head when emotions run high. If you find yourself fighting for a particular asset or child custody arrangement, consider the cost of pursuing the argument. Are you refusing to back down out of spite or does the issue in question genuinely matter?

The strategic family law attorneys at Edmiston Law Office know what’s at stake for their clients. That’s why they use all available resources and tactics to secure favorable divorce settlements and child custody arrangements. Based in Scottsboro, AL, this firm is backed by more than 25 years of experience in the legal field. Representing all of Jackson County, they practice in a variety of areas, including criminal defense, personal injury law, and estate planning. To learn more about their team, visit their website, and then call (256) 259-0834 to schedule a consultation.