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Funeral services can be difficult for parents of young children to navigate. Some parents might want to bring them along, while others may not want to risk any disruptions. Whatever the case, it’s not an easy decision to make. Thankfully, there are a few factors that you can consider to simplify the process and determine what’s best for everyone.

What to Consider Before You Bring Children to a Funeral Service

Age is one of the top factors to consider. If your little ones are infants or toddlers, then you might want to leave them at home with a babysitter. Young children probably won’t understand that they need to be quiet to show reverence. However, if they’re close relatives to the deceased, having the entire family attend shows respect and support.

funeral serviceChildren who are in preschool and above should be old enough to bring with you. Since they might not fully recognize the gravity of the situation, take some time in the days leading up to the service to sit down and talk with them. Be ready to answer any questions that they may have and offer the comfort that they require.

Should They Attend All or Part of the Service?

It depends on how much you think they can manage. Consider how long they can usually last without needing to get up and move about. If there’s a viewing beforehand, then you might want to consider arriving when the service actually starts. This will reduce the potential for disruptions and allow the rest of the guests to comfort each other in peace.

 

Since 1927, Fossum Funeral Home has been supplying compassionate services to families throughout La Crosse and Onalaska, WI. Their licensed funeral planners provide the personal attention their clients need to plan for the future and are available 24/7 to answer questions. They work directly with local vendors and offer some of the finest options for cremations, memorials, and funeral services. Call (608) 783-9777 to speak directly with a friendly representative, or visit their website to learn more about their offerings.

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