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Teaching your child about sharing will help them make friends on the playground and build social skills that they’ll carry with them through life. Toddlers tend to be naturally averse to giving up a toy, so proactively teaching them that sharing brings joy will help.

Teaching Your Toddler to Share on the Playground

1. Use Timers

playgroundIt’s much easier for toddlers to understand taking turns than it is to actively share. Use a timer to let them know that they get to play with a toy for five or 10 minutes; then, the other child gets it for the same amount of time. They’ll learn how to hand over the toy without tears and with the confidence that they’ll get it back.

2. Don’t Force It

Your child likely has a few prized possessions – those favorite books and toys that they love above all others. Don’t force them to give up those items; after all, you probably have objects you wouldn’t want to share. Tell them that you understand they don’t have to share that item, but they can’t play with it in front of others. Those items should stay hidden during a play date and shouldn’t be brought to the playground.

3. Be an Example

Your young one is always paying attention to your behavior and will mimic it. If they see you openly sharing, they’ll be more willing to do the same. For example, offer them some of your meal while you’re eating lunch. You can even set up situations with your spouse in front of your toddler, where they ask you for something, and you agree and hand it over. Through your example, your toddler will learn the appropriate way to react when someone asks for something.

 

Learning Through Play Cafe, Inc. is the perfect place for your child to practice sharing in West Chester, OH. This coffee shop has a state-of-the-art playground with stimulating toys and crafts. Parents can enjoy their coffee and tea while watching the kids play from their seats. They also host children’s parties. Learn more on their website and call (513) 847-8133 with any questions.

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