When someone you know passes away, attending the funeral and offering their loved ones a gift can be meaningful. Though you can't make their pain and sorrow go away, you can provide a little comfort. Here are several gift ideas for those who are grieving.

What to Give to Someone Who Is Grieving

1. Flowers & Plants

Instead of sending flowers to the funeral, send a bouquet to the spouse or the family of the deceased at their home. A vibrant bouquet of out-of-the-ordinary flowers can brighten anyone's day, even in times of sorrow. Also consider sending potted plants, as they last much longer than flowers.

2. Food

Even before the funeral, you can start a meal train for the family, or drop off items you know they'll need and enjoy. Hearty, frozen meals and comforting soups are excellent ideas, as they can be heated up any time at the convenience of those who are grieving. If you aren't sure about dietary restrictions, a gift card to a grocery store can be a big help.

3. Memorial Tree

For a long-lasting memorial, give the gift of a tree planted in memory of the person who has passed. Purchase the tree, and have the family decide where it should be planted.

4. Jewelry

When a child passes away, give the mother a gift of jewelry, such as a bracelet, pendant, or locket. A piece of jewelry can be a nice reminder of their presence. If they’re religious, consider including an option with symbols such as a cross. 

5. Time

Give the gift of your time. That might mean helping with funeral arrangements, running errands for the family, or babysitting the kids without expecting payment. It could also mean taking out your friend for lunch and just listening. Giving your time can be the greatest gift of all. 

If you need help with funeral arrangements for a loved one, contact Porto Funeral Homes in New Haven County, CT. This compassionate funeral home has been providing burial and cremation services to grieving families since 1931. Call their East Haven location at (203) 467-3000 or their West Haven location at (203) 934-5000 to speak to a team member, and visit them online to learn more about their services.