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Many people have questions about what’s considered proper behavior at a funeral service. While attending one may be unfamiliar to you, brushing up on some etiquette reminders will help you navigate this event with properly. Here are some recommendations for what to wear, among other helpful tips.

A Short Guide to Funeral Etiquette

What’s the dress code?

All funeral services are different, and while some families may be more laid-back, others may take a more formal approach. The best option is to dress conservatively, avoiding any loud patterns or vibrant colors. Depending on the family’s preferences, you can wear business casual clothing, or opt for a more formal suit or dress.

Are children allowed?

funeral servicesIn general, the decision of whether or not to bring children is made at the parents’ discretion. If you feel your child is mature enough to attend a funeral and that it may help bring them closure after a loved one has passed, you might consider having them attend. For babies and toddlers, it may be best to hire a sitter to prevent any disruptions during readings.

Should I view the casket?

During a wake, attendees typically stand in a line to pay their respects to the surviving family members. If the body is displayed, you’ll have the option to view the casket. Should you prefer to skip this, you may step away quietly. Some people use this as an opportunity to say a final farewell or a brief prayer. 

How long should I stay?

Formal funeral services are typically reserved for close family members or friends, and attendees are expected to stay for the duration of the event. If you do have to step out, avoid doing so during a reading or speech. For a wake, you may stay for as long as you see fit after paying your respects.

 

While attending and planning for funeral services comes with unique challenges, the team at Porto Funeral Homes in New Haven County, CT, is here to help you through every step. They offer personalized ceremony options to meet the wishes of each individual or their family members, as well as preplanning options for those who wish to make arrangements in advance. To learn more about their services, visit their website or call (203) 467-3000 for their East Haven location, and (203) 934-5000 for their West Haven office.

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