The thought of losing a parent is hard, and it’s a topic that most people avoid. However, funeral preplanning should be a part of any estate-planning conversations. Below is a simple guide to discussing funeral services with your parents.

Advice for Discussing Funeral Preplanning With Your Parents

1. Be Tactful & Considerate

Don’t try to start the conversation at a bad time, such as when they’re upset or are having a fun night out with family. Wait until they’re calm, in a decent mood, and have the time and energy to devote to the subject. All end-of-life discussions should be handled gently and in a respectful way. Assure them that you’re interested in helping them make any difficult decisions regarding memorial services and interment.

2. Explain the Benefits

Planning a funeral in advance puts your parents in control. It’ll also save them money. Preplanning allows for prepayment. Paying for the expense of a funeral at today’s prices will be less expensive as funeral costs rise. Funeral preplanning also ensures that your parents’ wishes are known. They’ll be happier knowing that you won’t have to make arrangements when you’re mourning their loss or cover unexpected expenses.

3. Don’t Push It

If your parents seem reluctant to discuss the topic, don’t push them. Be patient, give them space, but don’t delay the discussion forever. If you let them know that you’re there to support them, they may eventually come to you.

Let the considerate staff at Northcutt & Son Home for Funerals in Morehead, KY, help you and your parents with funeral preplanning. Since 1976, this funeral home has provided funeral services tailored to any belief system, nationality, or culture, giving you full control. Family-owned and -operated, they’ve served over 6,000 families since opening. Burial insurance is available to help cover costs. Learn more about preplanning online, or reach them by phone at (606) 784-6491.