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The loss of a loved one can affect the whole family, including young children. While planning funeral arrangements, it’s important to lend support to your children and help them navigate this loss. Consider these tips to help guide your little one through this challenging and confusing time.

Do:

Tailor the conversation to your child’s age.

funeral arrangementsWhen talking to your child about the passing of a loved one, it’s important to consider their age and tailor the conversation accordingly. If this is the first time they’re experiencing a loss, you may wish to provide less detail. Avoiding euphemisms and sticking to direct and simple language will also help prevent confusion. Understand that your child’s personality will influence how this conversation goes as well. For example, if they’re naturally curious, they may wish to know more than a child who prefers to internalize their feelings.

Welcome their input & questions.

After discussing the loss with your child, you should expect that they’ll have questions. Make sure to welcome their input and try to put their mind at ease. Encourage an ongoing dialogue and let your child know that all feelings are justified. Remind them that they’re not alone in their sadness, and that they can come to you at any time.

Don’t:

Leave them out of the funeral against their wishes.

While many parents worry about bringing their child to a funeral, don’t leave them out if they want to come. If your little one is old enough to make independent decisions, you shouldn’t deny them this opportunity for closure. A funeral can also be an important learning experience for children. However, be sure to prepare them for what to expect in terms of funeral arrangements, and warn them that people may be upset.

Force anything.

Although you’ll want your child to understand what’s happening, you shouldn’t force their grieving process. Sometimes children need to come to conclusions by themselves, and they may grieve on their own timeline. For example, if your child doesn’t want to talk about the loss or attend the funeral, respect their wishes. The best way for them to come to peace with the loss will be on their own terms.

 

If you’re in the process of planning funeral arrangements to honor a loved one, turn to the compassionate professionals at Brater-Winter Funeral Home in Cincinnati, OH. Specializing in everything from funeral pre-planning to memorial and cremation services, they will offer a personal touch and provide a memorable tribute to your loved one. To set up an appointment to discuss funeral arrangements, give them a call at (513) 941-1940. To learn more about their grief support services, visit them online.

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