Child custody disputes are one of the most important and can also be difficult to resolve. Unfortunately, heightened emotions surrounding the case often causes parents to make mistakes that can derail their case and cause unnecessary stress to their loved ones. Below are a few of the most common errors to avoid when resolving a custody issue with your spouse.

5 Common Child Custody Mistakes

1. Skipping Negotiations

During a divorce, you might feel like you don’t want to be part of the negotiations. However, giving in to these feelings can result in unnecessary litigation, which is expensive and time-consuming. Whenever possible, it’s always best to give mediation a try before resorting to the courtroom.

2. Using Custody to Express Anger

Your friends and family members may encourage you to pursue sole custody or more parenting time as a means of getting back at your spouse. This approach can result in unnecessary friction or a negative outcome for your children. Try to set your feelings aside and refrain from using custody negotiations as a venue for expressing your hurt feelings.

3. Using Your Spouse’s Failings as a Tactic

If you do go to court, try not to use your spouse’s failings as evidence of being an unfit parent. Most often, people who try this tactic wind up portraying themselves bitter and unwilling to negotiate or compromise.

4. Passivity

If you find your spouse to be difficult to work with, you may be tempted to agree to their proposed parenting plan to move the process along. However, child custody decrees are difficult to amend later. Being too passive and not protecting your rights can negatively affect your life for years to come.

5. Settle Issues Yourself

State law outlines each parent’s rights and responsibilities, so it’s recommended to consult an attorney before signing a custody agreement. Even if you and your spouse are able to reach a mutually acceptable solution, it’s best to have a lawyer review the plan before submitting it to court.

Resolving child custody issues can be difficult, but The Law Office and Mediation Center of Jeannine M. Talbot has the expertise to make the process as stress-free as possible. She prides herself on helping parents throughout the Torrington, CT, area find peaceful solutions to complex problems, and giving each of her clients the compassionate treatment they deserve. Visit her website for more on how she can help, get more tips and advice on Facebook, or call (860) 482-9004 to arrange an initial consultation.