Funerals are often emotional events as friends and family say their goodbyes to their loved ones. Because of the sensitive nature of the ceremony, all guests are encouraged to be respectful and courteous. If you’re preparing to attend one, here are a few guidelines that will help you honor the deceased and their family.

Do:

Dress appropriately.

A revealing or brightly colored outfit can be distracting at a funeral, where most people will be dressed conservatively. Business or business casual attire is acceptable, and it is best to wear dark colors like black, gray, or blue. Your outfit should also be ironed and clean.

Choose the right seat.

The first few rows of seats are typically reserved for family members and close friends of the deceased. If you do not fall into either category, you may need to look for a seat toward the middle or back of the funeral home or church.

Don’t:

Arrive late.

Tardiness is frowned upon in many situations, but it can be particularly troublesome for an emotionally charged event like a funeral service. Arriving late can disrupt the ceremony, so plan to arrive a few minutes before the service is scheduled to begin. Arriving early is also ideal if you would like to pay your respects to the deceased and greet the family before the event commences.

Be on your phone.

Using your phone is another way you can accidentally disrupt the service. Before you enter the facility, put your phone on silent or turn it off. It is also best to refrain from posting information or pictures about the funeral on social media platforms. This can be construed as insensitive to other mourners.

The compassionate staff at Adzima Funeral Home in Stratford, CT, has supported grieving families for over a century. They are available 24 hours a day to guide you through the difficult process of making funeral arrangements. They also offer pre-planning options. Learn more about their staff on their website or call (203) 375-2200 to discuss your needs with a funeral director.