Attending a funeral service at any age is difficult, but it is especially challenging for children. The concept of death is both unfamiliar and scary, and it may be overwhelming to understand the finality of life. By preparing your young one for what’s in store, you will ease their anxieties and uncertainties. Here’s what you should know.

How to Prepare Your Child for a Funeral

1. Talk Gently About What Happened

Death is an abstract concept to most children. There may be deep confusion surrounding the sudden loss of a person who was there not long before. Explain in clear, gentle terms that the person died, and watch their reaction closely. Allow them time to absorb the news, give them a chance to ask questions, and be as forthright as possible. Sometimes a hug is the best comfort you can provide during these moments.

2. Teach Them About Funerals

Explain to your little one that a funeral service provides those that loved the deceased a chance to say a proper and caring goodbye. Tell them what to expect during the event, whether it’s prayer readings, music, or short speeches. Tell them that people will be sad and that they may cry. There may also be many hugs and words of consolation, too. Let your child know that they can stay by your side the entire time if they want.

3. Consider How to Approach Fear

It’s natural for kids to feel fearful about attending an end-of-life service. Reassure them that crying is normal and even expected. Let them know that it’s because the people in attendance will miss the person very much. You should also talk about burial or cremation services, depending on what the family elects to do. If your child attends a graveside service, for example, explain that the casket contains the person’s body and that it will be lowered into the ground and buried.

Families throughout Dayton, OH, trust in the caring and compassionate staff at Schlientz & Moore Funeral Home for support and assistance during the funeral planning process. More than just a funeral home, we’ve served the community since 1921. Our goal is to help you every step of the way, from planning a funeral service befitting of your loved one to deciding on a burial or cremation service. Visit us online to learn more about how we can help you during your time of grief, or call (937) 253-1441 to speak with a staff member today.