When a loved one passes, making funeral arrangements will become a shared responsibility for your family. In addition to solidifying the logistics for the burial and service, you may want to prepare a tribute for them as well. If you’re planning to write and deliver a eulogy, here are some recommendations to help the process along. 

4 Tips for Writing & Delivering a Eulogy

1. Reflect With Family

As you deal with grief over a loved one’s passing, writing a speech in their honor can feel daunting. To begin the process and spark inspiration for your speech, sit down with friends and family, and reflect on memories of your loved one. Talk about their quirks and all that made your loved one unique. 

2. Write an Outline

Before writing the speech in full, start with an outline. Map out the pertinent details, accolades, memories, and accomplishments you wish to share in the speech. This outline will guide the writing process and ensure that you keep the piece brief but heartfelt. While it may be difficult during this time, do your best to focus on the positive and pen a speech that celebrates the individual’s life and impact on others. Don’t hesitate to include anecdotes, scripture, or beloved catchphrases that will move the audience or give them a moment of fond reflection. 

3. Read It out Loud

Your eulogy should be heartfelt and conversational. After writing it, practice reading the lines out loud. This will help with the flow, and you can make edits if certain sentences sound overly formal when spoken. Refrain from attempting to memorize your eulogy. Instead, print the speech to avoid losing your place during the funeral service. 

4. Pause When Necessary

Remember that the purpose of a eulogy is to celebrate a loved one’s life with friends and family. The audience won’t be judging you or your delivery. Speak from the heart and pause if you need a moment to reflect or compose yourself before continuing. Everyone in the room is supporting you and honoring your loved one. 

If you’re planning a funeral service for a loved one, turn to the compassionate and experienced team at Lawlor Funeral Home. Based in Columbia, IL, this funeral home has been assisting families throughout Monroe County since 1896. Call today at (618) 281-4123 to speak with their funeral director and visit their website to learn more about their commitment to providing quality service.