Losing a loved one is a sensitive and difficult situation, and you may not have discussed what to do with their ashes once they passed. Some come up with unique ways to disperse the ashes, and others are more traditional and want to keep their loved one’s remains close to home. After the cremation services have ended, discuss with your family about comfortable options. Below are three ideas to help you find the most fitting way to honor your loved one. 

How to Honor Your Loved One’s Remains  

1. Display at Home

Many believe that keeping the remains at home creates a continued connection to the deceased. Talk to your family members before or after the cremation service to find out if they have an interest in keeping the remains. Some may prefer the ashes are buried, while some may want their own urn with some of the ashes. Ashes do not have to stay together and can be evenly distributed among family members.

2. Transform It

For a more personal touch, you can have your loved one’s ashes turned into a diamond, and set into a ring or other piece of jewelry. If you are looking for an equally special, but less expensive route, there are also options for pottery, vinyl records, glassware, and even tattoos. Some people find it important to return the ashes to nature. There are many options, including a biodegradable urn that you can plant a tree in with your loved one’s remains. This has become a popular option, and more cremation tree cemeteries are popping up around the United States. The ashes can also be transformed into a coral reef, which is perfect for someone who was interested in aquatic life. 

3. Scatter the Remains 

Scattering the ashes is a long-standing tradition, and some will perform the act soon after the cremation service. You can turn this experience into a healing adventure. You can travel to a place that you and your lost loved one enjoyed together, or a spot that they always wanted to go to. Many national parks allow the scattering of ashes, but a permit is usually required. There are a couple of rules in place to prevent scattering around populated or historical sites, so discuss with representatives of the area about your plans. 

If you’re looking for a cremation service, turn to the professionals at Cornelius, Dodd & Connell Inc. Funeral Home in Middletown, NY. For more than 100 years, these professionals have sensitively helped families with funeral, memorial, and burial services. Visit them online to begin the process or call them at (845) 343-2142 to talk to a compassionate representative.