Decades ago, it was clear what you should wear to a memorial service or funeral, but times have changed. Today, traditions reflect modern times, and the fashion industry offers a broader selection of choices. Because of those changes, deciding what is appropriate to wear to a somber function has become challenging. Below are a few tips on how to dress if you are going to a memorial or funeral service.

What Should You Wear to a Memorial Service or Funeral?

1. Dress Conservatively

If the family is holding the service in a church or funeral home, you should dress formally, but, regardless, you should choose conservative attire. This location isn’t the proper setting for shorts, T-shirts, or revealing outfits. While you don’t have to wear a suit or a full gown, your attire should be more reserved. Additionally, avoid wearing bright colors. Black isn’t mandatory, but dark or muted colors are preferable.

2. Dress for the Setting

The family may hold the memorial service indoors, but it may also be at a park, beach, or cemetery. If the service is in an outdoor setting, you can dress a little more casually. However, you should also keep current weather conditions and forecasts for that day in mind. For instance, if it has rained recently, open-toed footwear isn’t advisable. If high winds are in the forecast for that day, you may want to wear your hair up and avoid bulky attire.

3. Avoid Flashy Jewelry 

Other than wedding bands and engagement rings, you should avoid wearing extra jewelry to funeral services. However, if you must wear jewelry, such as rings or broaches that hold sentimental meaning, avoid flashy displays. The idea is to avoid wearing anything that will divert attention from the service, so, if you think your jewelry will create a distraction, leave it at home.

4. What to Wear When in Doubt

If you’re still unsure what is appropriate to wear to the funeral, a helpful rule of thumb is to wear attire that’s appropriate for a job interview. If you wouldn’t want a prospective employer to see you in that outfit, it’s unwise to wear it to a memorial service. This rule also means ensuring that your clothing is the correct size. Ill-fitting clothes are uncomfortable for you to wear and distracting to others.

If a loved one has recently passed away, Boyd Funeral Home in Lonoke, AR, will help you plan the funeral and memorial service. Their knowledgeable and compassionate staff will help you plan out the ceremony, burial, or cremation, making this complicated responsibility a little less stressful. To learn more about their funeral and burial services, visit their website, or call them at (501) 676-2375.