Determining a teenager’s level of grief after losing a loved one can be difficult. Most teens are brooding and independent, so their actions after losing a close friend or relative may not indicate the need for grief support. While all children are different, it’s important to provide appropriate support options to keep them from seeking solace in substance abuse and other risky conduct.

3 Important Indicators of Teens Needing Grief Support

1. Dreams About the Deceased

Many people take comfort when they dream of past loved ones, but a teenager may find this experience unsettling. Their young minds can become confused or racked with guilt from their visions. If your teenager speaks of frequent dreams of the recently deceased, put them at ease by listening and having positive conversations about the departed.   

2. Falling-Off in School

Grief can weigh heavily on a young person’s mind, and their studies and school activities can be at risk if they don’t have an outlet. They may find it hard to concentrate in class or lose interest in sports, clubs, and other events. Antisocial behavior towards classmates and teachers can compound their struggles in school.

3. Eating Disorders

While some teenagers may eat more to relieve stress, others may stop eating altogether. Pay attention to their eating habits and speak up if extreme weight gain or weight loss is apparent. Instead of antagonizing and demanding that they eat, let them know that it is okay to feel the way they do, and encourage activities to express themselves and get their appetites back on track.

For compassionate funeral planning, trust the staff at Eackles-Spencer & Norton Funeral Home in Harpers Ferry, WV. Servicing the area for over 100 years, their knowledgeable funeral guides and directors are equipped to help you through the most trying times with funeral planning, cremation services, and grief support. Visit their website for a look at services or call them at (304) 724-6500.