With people spending more time on electronic devices than they did at any other point in history, this around-the-clock access to the internet has had a wide-ranging impact on lives and relationships. In fact, excessive social media use has been linked to relationship problems and divorce. Bradley A. Coates, a founder and divorce attorney at Coates Frey Tanimoto & Gibson in Honolulu, HI, spoke about this trend with Dr. Diana Wiley on her radio show, Love, Lust & Laughter. Below are some highlights of their conversation.

More Possibilities for Infidelity

Before electronic devices became mobile and commonplace, infidelity required going out and meeting people. But social media sites have put users in direct—and often intimate—contact with others in just a few clicks of a mouse or taps of a smartphone screen. This has made cheating much easier. And with the prevalence of emails and text messaging, getting caught has become much easier as well.

Access to Adult Materials

The internet has also given people free and easy access to pornography, which can also play a role in the destruction of relationships and lead to divorce. Sometimes it can alter and impair viewers' sexual relationships with their spouses. But pornography can also be a tool to improve sexual relationships if it’s accepted and enjoyed by both spouses.

Living Together & Apart

Coates talked to Dr. Wiley about the social and legal implications of living together without the benefit of marriage and the challenges of cohabitation. They also discussed Living Together Apart, a practice in which a couple is married or have a committed relationship but don't live under the same roof. With increased internet access, couples are learning different ways to be in relationships with one another.

Listen to Attorney Coates's interview with Dr. Wiley at Podbean. If you're dealing with the end of a marriage, trust Attorney Coates and his team at Coates Frey Tanimoto & Gibson to look out for you. As Hawaii's largest divorce and family law firm, they will help you navigate issues such as legal separation, asset division, child custody, and spousal and child support. Call (808) 524-4854 or visit them online to schedule a consultation.