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A Guide for Children Attending Funeral Services September 3, 2019

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A Guide for Children Attending Funeral Services, Chili, New York

It might be a tough decision to take small children to the funeral service for a loved one. This decision will probably depend on if you feel they’re able to handle the service. Funeral directors, parents, guardians, and close family members can all offer guidance on this topic. This guide can also help you.

How do I know if a child should attend?

Generally, children above preschool age will have enough of a grasp on the concept of death to attend a funeral. The attendance of younger children can be determined by their closeness to the relative. Bringing an infant can be a distraction from the services, but exceptions will likely be understood if the service is for the parent or grandparent of the child.

Pre-Kindergarten-aged children and toddlers can be more difficult in these situations since they tend to be more active, making them a handful at such a somber event. You can base the decision on the child’s nature. Children at this age can be given toys and activity books to distract themselves.

Which parts of the service should children skip?funeral service

Since funeral services can have multiple parts, it’s up to the adults to determine which portions are appropriate for the child. Open-casket ceremonies may be stressful for a young child since this can confuse them or give them nightmares.

Cemetery burials can also be traumatic for children, so many parents choose to keep their children away from the cemetery while attending any proceedings afterward.


When the time for memorial service planning is at hand, look to Leo M. Bean and Sons Funeral Home in Rochester, NY. Family operated for over 40 years, the Bean family’s funeral directors are experts at providing exquisite yet affordable cremation and funeral services. Visit their website to see a full list of services or call for an appointment at (585) 426-7830.

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