One of the most common types of funeral services in the U.S. is an open-casket funeral. Also called a wake or viewing, this option allows funeral attendees a final chance to see the deceased before burial. If you haven't been to one before, here's what you should expect.

What to Expect From the Appearance of the Deceased

At an open-casket funeral, the casket of the deceased will be present in the room for the service. There will likely be time for the attendees to approach the casket, in addition to possible eulogies, music, readings, and prayers. Some people are thrown off when they see the appearance of their loved ones in this setting. The remains will have been embalmed, washed, dressed, and made up to present a serene appearance. However, they will not look as they did in life and may appear stiff, which can be upsetting for some.

What to Do at the Services

You have the option to approach the casket. Crying and other emotional reactions to seeing the deceased are common, and attendees will be understanding if you're upset. Further, you should extend the same understanding to them. Some of your friends and loved ones may want company as they approach the casket. It’s also acceptable not to approach the casket, and if you think you're likely to find the experience upsetting or disturbing, you can simply stay seated and wait for the formal service. Make sure to follow basic etiquette, such as dressing appropriately, behaving in a composed manner, and offering your condolences to the family.

For compassionate funeral services in Fairfield County, CT, choose Fred D. Knapp & Son Funeral Home. This community funeral home has served Greenwich since 1846—over 170 years. They offer an individualized and caring approach, as well as support during this difficult time. For assistance, call (203) 869-0315 or reach out to their team online.