When a beloved friend or family member passes away, the responsibility and honor of delivering the eulogy at their funeral service might fall to you. It can be challenging to craft and present a heartfelt, all-encompassing homage to someone’s life. If you’re nervous about writing this significant piece for the first time, use the following tips to pen the perfect message.

3 Tips for Writing & Delivering a Eulogy

1. Brainstorm With Friends & Family Members

While the obituary is an informative piece of writing that tells readers of the passing and provides details of the funeral service, the eulogy is your chance to offer an intimate look at the individual’s life and character. Think about how they’ve influenced your path and discuss these anecdotes with others. They may be able to suggest fond memories you’ve forgotten or tell you new stories about your loved one. Best of all, these brainstorming sessions will help you build a more well-rounded illustration of the decedent.

2. Write Freely

When the thoughts and memories are fresh in your mind, sit down to write with an open mind. In a stream-of-consciousness style, jot down whatever comes into your head, disregarding the pacing and order. You can always edit and refine your draft later; holding back during the initial writing session can stifle the piece, especially because the content is so emotionally charged. Worry about grammar and organization later.

3. Practice in Front of an Audience

Edit the eulogy until you’re comfortable with it, then gather a few close friends or relatives to hear you deliver the speech out loud. In front of an audience, it may feel quite different from when you practice alone. Speak slowly, look up from the sheet of paper, and use appropriate inflections. When you’re through, ask your mock audience to provide feedback on the tribute.

If you’re preparing a eulogy for a loved one, let Brater-Winter Funeral Home of Cincinnati, OH, help with the rest of the funeral service. Since their founding in 1945, this funeral home has been helping families design memorable goodbyes for their loved ones. From floral arrangements to cremation urns, they will attend to every detail of the ceremony. To learn more about their services, visit the website, or call (513) 941-1940 to schedule an appointment.