Writing an obituary for a loved one is an essential part of funeral planning, presenting an opportunity to revisit cherished memories and share the highlights of someone’s life with others. While a few short paragraphs can never provide an adequate reflection of a life, the following tips will help you create a fitting written memorial.

How to Personalize an Obituary

1. Detail Their Skills, Hobbies & Personal Memories

Spend some time gathering memories and talking with people who were close to the deceased. Smile and laugh as you remember what made this person so special. When writing it, include their skills. What were their most significant accomplishments? Did they possess certifications, earn recognition for something, or win medals or trophies? 

Also, include their hobbies. What did they love to do? Did they enjoy painting, volunteering at the animal shelter, playing music, or gardening? Their hobbies may not necessarily seem as impressive as their accolades, but it’s part of what made them who they were.

Finally, note your personal memories by sharing a fond memory you cherish. Think of a shared experience that makes you laugh or fills you with admiration. If the memory you share makes you feel positive emotions, it will help readers connect.

2. Choose a Flattering Photo

If you choose to include a photo, pick one that shows them at their best. How would they want to be remembered? It doesn’t have to be current, but it should be a solo picture that clearly shows the person’s face.

3. Suggest Memorial Donations

People often want to extend their sympathies but don’t know how. A memorial fund will allow people to show their support. Suggest donating to a specific foundation, charity, or non-profit that your loved one was passionate about.

4. Name the Funeral Home in Charge of Funeral Planning

Even if you don’t plan to have a public service, include the name and phone number of the funeral home that is in charge of arrangements so people can get more information, such as the funeral time, if needed.

When you need a reliable and trustworthy funeral home, contact Fred D. Knapp & Son Funeral Home. They have been serving bereaved families in Fairfield County, CT, since 1846. They are compassionate and work to make the funeral planning process as easy and seamless as possible. To speak to a funeral director, call (203) 869-0315 today. Visit them online for more information about their funeral planning services.