Divorce impacts every area of your life, from your finances and friendships to relationships with your children. But the split doesn’t mean you can’t continue to be a great parent, build strong bonds, and play a crucial role in your children’s lives. The tips below from experienced divorce attorneys will help you nurture thriving relationships with your children after the marriage has ended.

Post-Divorce Parenting Strategies

1. Build a Working Relationship With the Other Parent

No matter how contentious your divorce may be, carrying that bitterness into the future will only make circumstances difficult for your children. You don’t have to be friendly with your former spouse, but having a cooperative relationship will make it easier to participate in your child’s life. Plan accommodations and set guidelines for discipline and rules. Be patient, honest, and open with them and your children about the process.

2. Actively Engage in Your Child’s Life

Making an effort to be involved in your child’s life will show them how important they are to you. Call them on the phone, send regular texts, and make an effort to attend as many games, dance recitals, and school events as possible. Parental support is important for children to feel safe, confident, and secure in all facets of their development.

3. Continue Your Family Traditions

From the first meeting with a divorce attorney to final paperwork signage, the end of a marriage is always disruptive. Maintaining family traditions or creating new ones will give your kids a sense of stability. Going out for ice cream every Saturday night or watching a favorite television show together can recreate consistency your children need, which is crucial for emotional and intellectual development.

4. Give Them Their Own Space

Your children will need time to process the separation after all divorce attorney processes are finalized. Ensure they feel safe and supported in every transition period. Help them add personal touches—posters or toys—to their new rooms. Allow them to keep family photos if it helps them process the separation better. Respect any feelings and concerns they may have about the divorce.

5. Don’t Disrespect the Other Parent

No matter how frustrated you may be, never make disparaging comments about your former partner in front of your children. It fosters resentment on both sides and leads to significant emotional insecurity. Don’t make loving your children a competition; make it a mutual expression of commitment that you and your former partner share for your children.

If your marriage is coming to an end, a skilled divorce attorney can help resolve your legal issues, protect your rights, and work to achieve the best possible outcome for your family. For over 20 years, Cheryl A. Beverson, Attorney At Law in New York has provided valuable legal advice to parents throughout Orange County, handling custody matters and marital asset concerns alike. Visit her online to learn more about her services or call (845) 341-0008 to schedule a consultation.